Ever so often I hear females saying they want to marry a guy with a stable job and making loads of cash. Same goes for males wanting to the same thing. People sometimes classify this as the "perfect financial status" in a marriage. Would you want your marriage to consists of such characteristics? Think about it carefully.
Problems arise when both partners in a relationship have loads of money.
Partners stop working together, and the level of communication decreases. That is because they don't really need each other for anything except "love." There is no need to speak about how the next bill will be paid and no need to ask the another partner for money because both already have money.
Kids might be the only things holding you together but as time progressed you will be attached to your kids and not to your partner. In a good marriage you need to be attached to both partner and your child.
It all leads down to this: Two wealthy persons in a marriage build a less stable relationship than if one partner is wealthy or no partner is wealthy.
But still we do dream at times to be successful and to marry to another successful person.
There is one major way to make it work and it is to WORK TOGETHER. Whether it means building a family company with shared responsibilities so a constant communication is established or going after a goal in life that will cost much more than your wealth can afford. You just need to find something that enables you to work together to achieve, because only focusing on your personal job and carrying the cash home, will only make you happy until a problem comes a long. A problem between you and your partner, a problem you will easily give up on because of lack of communication.
All that will lead to is divorce. There goes your 'perfect' marriage, down the drain.
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